Dating becomes even more complicated (Picture: Getty). The dating game is made even more confusing with a new set of dating vocabulary to learn.
Our apologies.
But remember, knowledge is power, right? So, according to language tutors at Preply, these are the latest buzz terms to become familiar with.
This will enable you to determine if your date is “orbiting” or “pocketing” you.
Benching
If you find yourself in multiple situationships, you’re likely benching.
“This occurs when someone considers the other person as their Plan B or Plan C while they explore other options for a better catch,” explained Preply.
Cookie jarring
“Cookie jarring is when someone wants to be in a relationship with you, but solely because you serve as a security blanket or backup plan to them.”
Ouch – expect more of this during the upcoming cuffing season.
They perceive you as a brief fling with no long-term potential.
Eco-dumping
Given the dire state of the climate crisis, eco-dumping is expected to increase.
The language experts stated, “Sure, two individuals may have common hobbies and sexual attraction, but showing no passion for the environment could be a significant red flag for some.
“This is where the concept of eco-dumping comes into play.”
Orbiting
This is something most people on social media can relate to.
If someone follows you and interacts with your content, but refuses to communicate with you directly, they’re orbiting you.
They most likely ghosted you as well, as these individuals are typically unreliable and prefer to keep their distance by maintaining social media as their sole connection.
Pocketing
To “pocket” someone means to only make yourself available when it suits your convenience and schedule.
“In addition to this, despite having seen each other for months, a pocketer would adamantly resist introducing you to their family or friends,” they added.
Side-barring
If you’ve personally experienced this, you know how awkward it can be. If you’ve witnessed it occurring in a restaurant, it’s just painful.
“This refers to when an individual, despite being out with someone, is constantly on their phone and exhibits no sense of presence.”
It goes against basic dating etiquette.
Zombie-ing
This is a step up from ghosting – and it requires even more audacity.
“This refers to someone who had previously disappeared from your life by ghosting but has suddenly reappeared and acts as if nothing happened.”
